You fight what your head's telling you all the time.
You beat yourself up when you make a mistake.
You're frustrated with yourself and you wish you weren't so hard on others.
You wish you could turn that mean voice off, so you could have peaceand smile more.
Growing up, I felt I had to succeed to win my parents’ love. I felt pressure to be perfect and became very driven as a result.
When I was getting my MFA in poetry, I’d exhaust myself trying to get my poems right. It got so bad I’d forget to shower or even eat. I’d write and revise, pushing away my then-husband so I could keep working. I tried and tried and couldn't get mypoems, or my relationship, where I wanted them to be.
The moment I started giving myself permission to live an imperfect life, everything started changing. I had morespace to create and I enjoyed my life in the process!
Now, 10 years later, I have a business I love where I get to teach what I know, a great relationship with the love of my life, and the freedom to travel to dive and photograph cool ocean creatures.
If an uber-perfectionist like myself could do it, you can, too!
This program is designed to teach you useful skills to stay clear, centeredand powerful in any situation, no matter what's going on in your head, soyou can move through life with the ease and joy you deserve.
Imagine being able to handle any voice in your head with love.
Imagine how much easier your relationships will be and how much moreenergy you'll have to put into getting what you want once you're not fightingyour own head all the time.
Your Conductor is the clear, centered, aware part of you that sees the big picture and didn’t emerge out of your childhood wounding. Also known as your Adult Woman or Man, Aware Ego, or Inner Master.
You'll get clear on who’s in charge in your head now. You'll learn to hear all the voices in your head as coming from love.
We'll navigate your resistance together, so you can fully step into your power.
We hop on Zoom for an hour every week for 6 weeks straight.You get customized growth work to implement after every call.You have unlimited email access to me throughout the programfor questions and laser coaching.
Anger and woundedness
Ariel put her Conductor and her Negotiator in charge before walking into mediation for her divorce, keeping her Wounded Wife in the background until she was alone later. Instead of taking 9 hours as expected, they were done in 3 and she got what she wanted.
Self-doubt and insecurity
Paula put her Conductor in charge so firmly that she no longer took the bait when her husband tried to pick a fight and he started giving her spontaneous compliments.
Pressure to perform and no time for is relationship
John realized that he had a deep inner conflict between his driven side and his relaxed side. Through learning to listen to and respect the relaxed side of himself, he began to succeed more at his work and his relationship improvedbecause he started making time for it and was able to be present with his partner.
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