Learn 3 surprising ways you block having what you want in your relationships (and life) and how to unblock yourself.
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Creating a Masterpiece of Work and Love
You come home over-the-moon excited about another project or idea.
Your partner listens — maybe — and shares some interest but maybe not as much as you’d like.
When they ask for your attention, you don’t give them your time… or attention.
Don’t they get it — you’re under pressure, you’re in ‘the moment’ — why would they interrupt your flow like that?
Of course, you wish you could just drop everything, jump in bed, and come back with that same inspiration before the interruption.
You don’t want to lose that moment… but you also don’t want to ignore your partner.
Why do you have to choose?!
When I was in my 40’s, I had a picture-perfect marriage in so many ways, but I was dying inside.
At the time, I thought his bottomless need for attention was a problem. I felt like I had to escape from him to have space to write. I'd shut my office door and breathe a sigh of relief, finally able to hear myself think.
He wasn’t the problem. I didn’t know how to ask for what I needed in our marriage in a way that brought us closer instead of driving us apart.
I put up walls instead of setting healthy boundaries. I didn’t know how to arrange my work and marriage so both of the loves of my life could thrive and not compete with each other.
I'm now partnered with a man I adore, who shares my view that the purpose of our relationship is to support each other as we grow.
We’re co-creating a relationship designed to hold all of us: our depth, our brilliance, our creativity, our sexiness, our playfulness, and all of our messiness.
Our relationship feeds my writing and inspires me in my work with coaching clients. Insights from my writing and coaching feed and deepen our relationship.
I finally understand, from deep in my bones, the nourishing power of a great relationship. I no longer see love as an afterthought or as a distraction from my creative purpose.
I intentionally evolved my two loves from a clunky love triangle into an elegant love circle where my partner, my work, and I can thrive. I now know my purpose in life is to show other creatives how to evolve as well.
While leaving my marriage was the right choice for me, that’s not the takeaway here. For creatives who also want a fulfilling relationship, there's hope for you.
This customized experience will show you how to be more of yourself while inspiring your relationship to grow with you.
Imagine feeling free and joyful, sharing your true self in your craft and your relationship.
Imagine how much more fulfilling your relationship will be when you no longer feel torn between your work and your partner.
Just think how much more energy you'll have to invest back into getting what you want.
Relationship Artistry consists of 4 key elements to help you reach your creative and relationship goals over the next 9 months:
Using my Circle of Love approach, we’ll turn the painful Love Triangle you’re in now between your craft and partner into a Love Circle, so you can weave your loves together into a supportive and fulfilling whole.
We meet for an hour over Zoom 3 times a month with customized growth work to support you between sessions.
The situation you’re in is probably one you’ve been in before. Sometimes deeply entrenched patterns require a Deep Dive to find and shift the true root. That’s why we have two 3-hour VIP Deep Dive Sessions spaced evenly throughout the program, to dive in more deeply on specific topics, as well as to recalibrate the focus of your customized program to stay on track with your goals.
Get questions answered via email anytime during the program, so you won’t be stuck waiting until our next call to know what to do next.
Using my Symphony Process, you’ll become the Maestro of your Mind, so your most supportive and loving thoughts are consistently louder than your critical ones and your mind no longer holds you back from being at your best.
Learn powerful somatic techniques for feeling your true yes and your true no, so you can make clear decisions and stop second-guessing yourself no matter how challenging the situation.
Compassionately see your biggest blocks to fulfillment in relationship and learn specific tools to dismantle them even when things get intense or stressful between you.
Learn the 3 steps of my Rock Your Requests process, so you can start getting what you need in your relationship without alienating your partner or sacrificing yourself.
Come to love and accept all parts of yourself and your partner, even if they bug the shit out of you sometimes, so you can expand the intimacy, depth, and range of your relationship. Imagine being able to fully love, express, vent, and play with the same person, so you can say, "F*ck you! What's for dinner?"
Learn how to let your partner know you need to go into your creative cave, so they respect your need for creative space and feel loved instead of sidelined.
Discover how to bring your creative force into your relationship and into the bedroom, so you have pleasure, enjoyment, and depth with your partner as much as you do by yourself.
Get clear on your six highest priorities and make them your Guiding Star, so your decision-making gets streamlined and easy and you have confidence that you’re aligning yourself with what matters most to you as you implement what you’re learning.
Through getting clear on your priorities, you’ll also discover your Deepest Why, so you can stop flinging yourself through life hoping for the best and expand your inner cohesion and personal power as you let your Deepest Why and your Guiding Star priorities guide your purposeful actions.
Release the places you've sacrificed, contracted, and compromised yourself based on what you thought you had to do, so you can realign with who you really are, what you really want, and the highest good for everyone involved.
Before I started the program I was concerned about how I would manage the time commitment. Slowing down to see myself and my thoughts was big for me, along with the permission to put myself first and start to release more layers of shame around who I am and what I need. I loved the coaching calls! Marie-Elizabeth’s attention literally beams with love and her ability to distill questions and answers is grounded and powerful. I always felt like I had a takeaway.
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I was not used to investing in myself. But it was very well-timed and I will reap the benefits of this investment for the rest of my life. I have gotten more comfortable silencing my inner critic. I am now not afraid of boundary-setting and have gotten quite good at it. Additionally, I have come to accept and heal from my difficult childhood. Marie-Elizabeth really listens. I recommend this journey. If a person is ready and willing to do the work, it can be life-changing.
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Marie-Elizabeth has supported me through the most difficult times of my life. She helped me grow to the point where I was able to deal with all of my life challenges and completely change my experience of life. I learned about my beliefs, about maturity, how to deal with freedom and responsibility, and how to be at peace with my past wounds. This includes going from struggle to great performance with ease and happiness.
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