Does your work make you happier than your personal life does?
Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to improve communication and deepen the love in your relationship, so you can stop hiding out at work, where you already feel powerful and expressed, and be happy and fulfilled at home, too.
Does your work make you happier than your personal life does?
Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to improve communication and deepen the love in your relationship, so you can stop hiding out at work, where you already feel powerful and expressed, and be happy and fulfilled at home, too.
You identify as woman / womxn / femme / nonbinary / gender nonconforming.
You're single or partnered.
You’re ready to dismantle beliefs and actions that sabotage your success in love and create new beliefs and actions aligned with who you truly are and how you want to show up in all your relationships.
You crave community with a diverse group of folx committed to deepening embodiment and the clear expression of love and power.
You have a growth mindset and are willing to be introspective and coachable.
You think others are the problem and you’re perfect. 😉
You’re unwilling to look inside and acknowledge that you’re both amazing and flawed.
You don't believe that investing in yourself will help you get what you want.
You’re not ready to be a part of a small, brave, incredible community doing kickass growth work.
After my marriage ended in 2012, I dove into figuring out why my relationships weren't working. I learned to befriend my mind, embody my desires, and learned how to communicate better.
Since 2015, my partner Patrick and I have approached our relationship as a vehicle for each of our individual growth.
Here we are visiting the Dominican Republic for my Venezuelan cousin's wedding!
When my overwork pattern began to affect our relationship, I vowed to figure out how to thrive with both my loves — my work and Patrick.
As a result, we've created a relationship that's connected, playful, loving, and we're a great team, even when we disagree!
Our relationship fuels my coaching practice, and the inspiration and joy I get from working with clients nourishes our relationship.
I want this kind of alive, growing, loving, solid relationship for you, too!
Already know you want to talk with Marie-Elizabeth about Relationship Alchemy?
Imagine feeling free and joyful, sharing your true self in your relationship and your work.
Imagine how much more fulfilling all your relationships will be when you no longer feel torn between competing pulls on your time and have synergy between all the moving parts of your life.
Imagine how much more energy you'll have to invest back into getting what you want out of life when you're no longer drained by conflicts at home.
Relationship Alchemy lasts for six months, starting on August 6th
We'll cover these six areas in our time together
(I also reserve the right to switch things up according to the needs of the small group)
Which direction are you headed with your life, work, and relationship? A Guiding Star gives you an undeniable anchor point on the horizon. It’s essential for us to start Relationship Alchemy by aligning with your Guiding Star -- a standard built on your core values and vision for who you truly want to be in the future. This streamlines decision-making, efficiency, and internal dialogue. The more prominent your Guiding Star, the better clarity you have to make more effective decisions and realize your full potential. We get clear first on what’s worth pursuing so you can see which activities and people align with your new pathway.
“I’ve had practically a complete reduction of negative self-talk and now have an easier time sitting in and expressing my truth. I feel really empowered. I know what my next steps are and I feel I accomplished so much during this time. I recommend working with Marie-Elizabeth for her ability to teach different techniques that address specific issues that need attention. I wanted to work on making sure my relationship was well taken care of and ended up improving on myself, so I’m able to reap the benefits of this work in every aspect of my life, not just my relationship.”
— Patty Wells, Owner/Operator of D&L Transportation
Your mind is an orchestra — and without a Maestro conducting the thoughts in your mind, it can be chaotic, unpredictable, and even debilitating. We identify the Maestro of your mind, your inner voice of clarity and calm that’s always been with you from the beginning. Once we empower your Maestro to be in charge of your mind, then you can know for certain what you want and why it matters. Moving forward, you'll feel empowered and certain in your choice and voice.
Your mind is an orchestra -- and without a Maestro conducting the thoughts in your mind, it can be chaotic, unpredictable, and even debilitating. We identify the Maestro of your mind, your inner voice of clarity and calm that’s always been with you from the beginning. Once we empower your Maestro to be in charge of your mind, then you can know for certain what you want and why it matters. Moving forward, you'll feel empowered and certain in your choice and voice.
"I have experienced tremendous growth through coaching with Marie-Elizabeth. I have regained my sense of self, individuality, and independence to make life decisions with improved clarity and without fear of repercussions. I learned how to respond instead of reacting, in a manner congruent with who I am and what I desire, without fear or trying to people-please. I felt heard, listened to without judgment, and provided with skills and tools to handle challenges more clearly. I appreciate Marie-Elizabeth being my biggest cheerleader throughout this process. Her pure heart, solid listening skills, and her awesome guidance and strategies helped me achieve my fullest potential. Because of her, I am whole."
— Kris C., Physical Therapist
Every relationship -- even the ones who say this isn’t true -- faces challenges when it comes to conversations. From the where-you-squeeze-the-toothpaste conversation to the “I hate your mother” conversation (again), you need to know how to navigate those moments for better connection in your relationship. Connected Conversations is about nurturing your communication and listening skills to support deepening your relationship, especially when you disagree. We’ll practice making requests, setting up emotionally charged conversations, and taking responsibility when you need to step away and recenter your mind. Here, we're all about #realtalk.
"Since taking CATALYST, I’ve engaged in open conversations with my partner and been diving deeper into my own self-work because I’m seeking to create more spaciousness for hard conversations and change work. It’s reassuring to be in a collective space to talk about my feelings, share with others, listen and learn from them as well as Marie-Elizabeth. The level of coaching she provides feels like some advanced alchemy!"
—Rae Leiner, Executive Director, Newburgh LGBTQ Center
You were never meant to enjoy ‘safe love’ -- settling for good enough, for just the next person who came along. The tragedy is that you likely compromise what you truly want for any number of reasons. And that decision is what’s keeping you from reaching true success in every area of your life, including your work and relationship. Nothing exists in the universe -- including us as humans -- without desire for something more. Instead of being apologetic, uncertain, and afraid, you can learn to love like a lioness. This is your permission slip to be brave, driven, and fierce in chasing what you want out of life. No apologies needed.
You were never meant to enjoy ‘safe love’ -- settling for good enough, for just the next person who came along. The tragedy is that you likely compromise what you truly want for any number of reasons. And that decision is what’s keeping you from reaching true success in every area of your life, including your work and relationship. Nothing exists in the universe -- including us as humans -- without desire for something more. Instead of being apologetic, uncertain, and afraid, you can learn to love like a lioness. This is your permission slip to be brave, driven, and fierce in chasing what you desire. No apologies needed.
"Since participating in Catalyst, I’m taking more time to think about what I want to say and how I want to show up. It was great to have a combo of modules and live calls, which helped me integrate the material. Marie-Elizabeth is powerful and not afraid to just get in it. She’s incredibly insightful. I love that she doesn’t shy away from discomfort or questions, observations, and insights that someone might find challenging. She’s amazing and I adore her!"
— Sarah Lange, Founder, Sarah B. Lange Co.
Can we talk about sex? Each of us has a unique erotic blueprint, deeply personal and in some cases, even traumatized. Wherever your relationship is right now, you hold the power to expand your sexual fulfillment. The secret is that the art of sexual fulfillment is less about the physical act of sex and more about the full embodiment of your erotic aliveness. When you’re in true alignment with your erotic self, you’ll make better decisions throughout your life because you can feel what turns you on or shuts you down. You'll learn to align yourself with your unique erotic self, ask for what you want, and invite the exact experiences you desire into your space.
"Marie-Elizabeth is a powerful powerhouse coach! If you're in need of a frequency alignment and someone to serve and see you, then look no further. Her approach is fierce but calm, and her communication will speak to you exactly where you are. Marie-Elizabeth's laser focused coaching on the calls was not just exquisite, but also super freaking real. Her authenticity really speaks to me in a special way."
— Daniella Malfitano, Chef, 9-Time Cookbook Author, TV and Radio Host
This is the masterstroke of Relationship Alchemy -- when we bring all the pieces together of each section in a glorious unveiling. The Artful Love Connection is about reshaping your love triangle that involves you, your work, and your relationship into a harmonious love circle where you can thrive in every area of life. We’ll explore how to optimize your performance using neurohacking, increase your impact, and elevate your potential to next-level greatness. With your Guiding Star lighting the way, you can integrate work and play in a sustainable, nourishing new reality.
This is the masterstroke of Relationship Alchemy -- when we bring all the pieces together of each section in a glorious unveiling. The Artful Love Connection is about reshaping your love triangle that involves you, your work, and your relationship into a harmonious love circle where you can thrive in every area of life. We’ll explore how to optimize your performance using neurohacking, increase your impact, and elevate your potential to next-level greatness. With your Guiding Star lighting the way, you can integrate work and play in a sustainable, nourishing new reality.
"I was not used to investing in myself. But it was very well-timed and I will reap the benefits of this investment for the rest of my life. I have gotten more comfortable silencing my inner critic. I am now not afraid of boundary-setting and have gotten quite good at it. Additionally, I have come to accept and heal from my difficult childhood. Marie-Elizabeth really listens. I recommend this journey. If a person is ready and willing to do the work, it can be life-changing."
— Antoinette Brim, Author and Educator
Video modules delivered twice (2x) per month in our easy-to-use and fun course portal. You’ll receive lifetime access to these modules and any additional bonus content created during our six months together.
Private access to our Relationship Alchemy online group for support, questions, insight, and celebrating wins.
Optional add-on: One (1) private 60-min coaching call per month with Marie-Elizabeth during the program (Six (6) calls in total).
Two (2) group 90-minute coaching calls per month, starting on July 16th. Twelve (12) group calls in total.
Video modules delivered twice (2x) per month in our easy-to-use and fun course portal. You’ll receive lifetime access to these modules and any additional bonus content created during our six months together.
Private access to our Relationship Alchemy online community for support, questions, insight, and celebrating wins.
Optional add-on: One (1) private 60-min coaching call per month with Marie-Elizabeth during the program (Six (6) calls in total).
Bonus #1: Three (3) additional training sessions with guest experts in months 2,4, and 6. Topics to be decided by a group poll. (value: $1,000)
Bonus #2 for Early Birds: One (1) 90-minute group coaching call on July 9th if you apply and are accepted by July 8th. (value: $275)
Bonus #3 for Full-Pay Participants: Three (3) 30-minute private S.O.S. calls with Marie-Elizabeth to be used at any point during the six months of our program. (value: $775)
Because of the nature of the coaching container, I don’t offer refunds or returns past the first 30 days. If, in the first 30 days, either of us realize that we just don’t click, I'll refund your investment, minus any coaching time you've already used, since because coaching is paid labor.
Since what comes up when you're doing a deep inner dive may not be fun or pleasant to work through at times, it can feel easier to request a refund instead of facing the emotional blocks, baggage, and level of commitment it takes to successfully transform your relationship with yourself and your dynamics with others. But I believe in you and am committed to guiding you through to the other side.
For this reason, the refund window closes after the first 30 days and I ask that you be “all in” and trust the process all the way through the six months.
If disconnection and upset occur between participants or with me during our time together, I commit to doing what it takes to repair and restore the connection and safety within our community.
Because of the nature of the coaching container, I don’t offer refunds or returns past the first 30 days. If, in the first 30 days, either of us realize that we just don’t click, I'll refund your investment, minus any coaching time you've already used, because coaching is paid labor.
Since what comes up when you're doing a deep inner dive may not be fun or pleasant to work through at times, it can feel easier to request a refund instead of facing the emotional blocks, baggage, and level of commitment it takes to successfully transform your relationship with yourself and your dynamics with others. But I believe in you and am committed to guiding you through to the other side.
For this reason, the refund window closes after the first 30 days and I ask that you be “all in” and trust the process all the way through the six months.
If disconnection and upset occur between participants or with me during our time together, I commit to doing what it takes to repair and restore the connection and safety within our community.
Marie-Elizabeth Mali helps purpose-driven, high-powered people in expanding joy and fulfillment beyond their work. As a Relationship Artist and Coach, she helps people deepen love and connection in their relationship with themselves and others.
Drawing on her Master’s degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine, her experience in being raised between three cultures (and being fluent in three languages since the age of 3) and her 30 years of personal development work, Marie-Elizabeth brings a unique and unparalleled perspective to what it means to be your full, authentic self in relationship—instead of trying to mold yourself to others’ opinions so you can fit in.
Marie-Elizabeth is also a published author with an MFA in Poetry from Sarah Lawrence College and an underwater photographer who has a thing for sharks.
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